About

Hi! I’m Willow.

I’m so excited that you’re here because it means that you’re not settling for good. Instead, you’re taking action and seeking out the resources to achieve your most fulfilling and mind-blowing intimate life. I’d like to share a little bit about me. I am a Somatic Sexologist and Somatica Method-Trained Sex & Relationship Coach.

I’m also an actively practicing witch that has served as a ceremonalist within private rituals and public gatherings within various covens for 6 years.

And, as a former temple facilitator, I have held sacred sexual containers that have been deeply transformational events that draw people out of their shame and into their power. 

 

Hi! I’m Willow.

I’m so excited that you’re here because it means that you’re not settling for good. Instead, you’re taking action and seeking out the resources to achieve your most fulfilling and mindblowing intimate life. I’d like to share a little bit about me. I am a…

  • Somatic Sexologist
  • Somatica Method-Certified Sex & Relationship Coach
  • Supporting member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counsellors, and Therapists

I’m also an actively practicing witch that has served as a ceremonalist within private rituals and public gatherings within various covens for 6 years.

And, as a former temple facilitator, I have held sacred sexual containers that have served as deeply transformational events that draw people out of their shame and into their power. 

My Story

My ever-evolving journey through the ecstatic and challenging waters of sex and relating has been full to the brim.

I’ve done it all. I’ve navigated loss of interest in long-term partnership, went from believing I was not a sexual person to realizing I am quite the opposite, experienced quantum leaps from severe shame into sexual empowerment, journeyed through many different relating styles, walked through the fires of the dating world, battled body dysmorphia, worked through seemingly impossible relationship struggles, and so much more.

This journey in the realms of intimacy never ends, and my goal is to continue to remain humble and grow through the incredible teachings of these mirrors.

You Don’t Want Good. You Want Mindblowing.

With all that I have learned and continue to learn, I am here to empower others to navigate their intimate lives with clarity and confidence. My goal is to provide practical tools and support to help people…

My Approach vs. Therapy

Traditional therapy has its strengths, but most therapists (even those specializing in couples’ work) have little to zero training in sexuality. The truth is that it takes more than traditional talk therapy to untangle deep sexual & relational patterns.

As a Somatica Method-Trained Sex & Relationship Coach and Sexologist, I offer a different approach. I blend talk-based practices, sex education, experiential learning, and embodied practices to provide a holistic path to healing and growth.

What makes the Somatica® Method stand out is its experiential nature. Rather than just talking about intimacy through a detached client-therapist relationship, I guide you through hands-on, body-based experiences that offer faster and more effective ways to rewire your thoughts and actions.

FAQs

What is Somatic Sexology?

Somatic sexology is a powerful method that combines talk-based practices with holistic body-centered practices. Unlike conventional therapy, we use touch within defined boundaries to help you enhance your sensuality, connect your mind and body, improve sexual well-being, and ultimately lead a more fulfilling sex life. Through conversation, somatic exercises, breathwork, movement, touch, and more, somatic sexology aims to promote self-awareness, empowerment, and sexual liberation.

What is Sex and Relationship Coaching?

Sex and relationship coaches are trained professionals who help individuals and couples address issues such as sexless partnerships, low libido, and sexual dysfunction. We help you become an amazing lover, communicate sexual desires and fantasies, heal from sexual trauma, and celebrate your sexual and gender identity. We also teach self-awareness and communication skills to help couples develop mutual empathy, get out of codependent patterns, and become more of a team. This can also include helping you negotiate the relationship structure that works best for everyone, for example, monogamy, open relating, polyamory, or swinging.

What is the Somatica® Method?

The Somatica® Method is a unique approach to enhancing emotional and erotic intimacy through real-time practice. It equips you with tools to identify and release emotions, regulate the nervous system, and foster embodied empathy. Unlike traditional therapy, we don’t just talk about intimacy in theory – we actively guide you in cultivating honest, boundaried, and authentic relationships through practical experience. During sessions, you’ll be able to share vulnerably and receive authentic feedback.

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